I don't understand why his girlfriend would drive him home and leave him in the car to sober up. Someone who has been beaten doesn't act drunk. Why didn't she take him to the hospital?

lets remember this incident is currently being investigated. Please let's not release info until the investigation is finished.

I agree, why post rumors as a news story?

Very sad situation. I've heard similar things as this. I'm glad you put it as an opinion piece until you get all the facts.

The descriptions of Randy as I knew him are quite accurate. He was the sweetest man I ever met. I don't know the other party so I will not comment on him. The rumors disturb me greatly, so I can only imagine what Randy's family is feeling. I will say this -- if you were there and SAW what happened - please grow a pair and take yourself down to Florissant PD. I don't know a single detective who would not get up from his dinner to come talk to you. Not because he's anyone's friend - but because what they need is the truth. As for any further violence, Randy's family has stated they "feel no hatred" for this man. Is everyone hurt and pissed? Damned skippy, we are. Do the right thing!

Booze..... Bottom line.... No matter what happened, if there wouldn't have been heavy, HEAVY drinking involved, NONE of this would have ever happened. Makes me f**king sick....

St Louis Co PA's office needs to do their job for a change... You need to look into them blowing cases off.. They are just plain lazy.. all they want is the slam dunk cases.. anythig that involves work, well forget it... the PA's office is a joke just ask any cop and they will tell ya... They all need to be fired and put some people in there that will do the job that they have been hired for.

Is there a legitimate news story anywhere? Randy used to work for my dad and my dad doesn't know computers well and I am trying to find info for him so he can have peace and know what happened to his former employee and friend. Thank you.

I known Randy and his brother Scott for 30 years Randy was a good person, great father, and a all around good man. We use to party together back in the day like most young people I don't know what really happened but let the truth be told God knows and will handle business. We answer for alot of things that we do, we answer to a lot of people like bosses, parents, spouses, kids, etc. I would hate to be the person that has to answer God for that crime on judgement day

@ Jim....THAT'S NOT NECESSARILY TRUE...ABSOLUTELY NOT. ONE of the people involved has an extremely long & complicated history of fighting & violence (drunk OR sober) & ONE doesn't. ONE person was trying to hit a WOMAN, ONE was trying to STOP him from doing so.

my dad was a great man... he was standing up for one of our family members when this guy did what he did too him... my dad wasnt one to start fights and he did not drink ALOT!! That has nothing to do with anything that happened....i know a man who saw the other man run away.... It hurts seeing as though i have no parents anymore and seeing that both my parents were murdered...we buried my father yesterday... i just want to say get yoiur facts straight before you start spreading rumors about MY Father...what if it had been your dad???

Love you Taylor. You are exactly right.
Randy was my cousin. He was one of the strongest men I have ever known. We come from a very large family (30+ first cousins) and Randy was always there for all of us anytime we needed him. He was always a phone call away. What happened to him was uncalled for, it was terrible. Words can not express the feeling we all have knowing that someone TOOK his life!
I hope and pray the police do not stop until they get justice for this terrible crime.

(continued from above cuz I ran outta room!!)
So, TRY to take the good parts and see the positive. I KNOW IT'S HARD...DAMN HARD! And I know this is SOOOOO UNFAIR! Things will probably be harder before they get easier, BUT lean on your family, friends, teachers, counselors, etc. who offer their help....you'll never know how much help they might be AND who might've lived through a similar situation if you don't LET them TRY to help. All of these comments/this advice is sent to you and your siblings lovingly, with the upmost care and concern and MEANT to help....& I'm truly, wholheartedly sorry if ANY offends, hurts or upsets you. I'd do ANYTHING I could to turn back the clock & change things for you guys babes...ANYTHING, but as that's not an option, all I can do is offer my love & support, along with the things I'VE learned throughout my life.
Sending all my love, prayers, hugs & cuddles to you,
Now and always,
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX

If there is someone who knows the jerk that did this to Randy, why not step up. People know he has a reputation, etc. So why not help out and put him where he belongs before he kills someone else.

I want to help the Feger family. I am 44 years old as well and have three children of my own. I am familiar with the Pirates Cove. I noticed the fundraising results that have currently been achieved and I can help significantly. I operated a fundraising company that would work perfect here, Fundraising Midwest. I believe with the publicity that this has recieved 5000 programs could be sold. That means $10,000 per month for a very long time to the Randy Feger Fund. Go here and watch short video: http://www.fundraisingmidwest.com/savings-plans/ Anyone that has even heard of this will be happy to help.

If someone can help me get into contact with the family I would love to help.

Jeff - 314-220-8386

We miss Randy every day....My family, Tarina (his daughter Haleigh's Mom) is grieving along with Haleigh and we just all want JUSTICE!!!!!! No he and Tarina were not together, but had been talking about it and she is blaming herself for not taking him back!!!!! Maybe with JUSTICE her and Haleigh and everyone else hurting over this whole thing can at least begin to get some kind of closure~!!!!!! I too went to school with the person that they say did this and yes he is a menace to society....he took a good man from all of us!!!

X

For the one to talk about my step mother she didnt know he was hit or she prob would have took him to the hospital but from the bar to the house he had no marks on him and you should be asking why Tom came back an beat my father into a coma?

i have something to say

Anon, I want to listen. Please email me at angela.atkinson@patch.com.

After reading all of these comments and knowing what happened i would like to agree with the fact that this situation could have been handled a bit differently if randys girlfriend would have made the adult decision instead of "leaving him in the car to sober up" she could have called the hospital. He wasn't talking and was pretty drunk, not saying he was a huge alcoholic but you get my point, anyways Randy was a pretty great guy even though hes had some pretty poor judgment throughout his journey. i believed he touched many hearts and therefore left an impact on many people.

Are there any updates on this sad story? Have they arrested thise responsible?

Taylor Ann~don't listen to these people who say your stepmom or WHOEVER ELSE "should've done this" or "should've done that"......THEY WEREN'T THERE (most of 'em) AND THEY DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT THE EXACT SITUATION WAS, EXACTLY WHAT STATE YOUR DAD WAS IN (ie: the sometimes, rather subtle differences between being inebriated & having mental status changes r/t a brain injury sustained during a beating).....SO......not only SHOULD THEY SHUT THE HELL UP, PARTICULARLY WHEN YOU, RANDY'S CHILDREN ARE CLEARLY READING & RESPONDING / REPLYING TO THESE POSTS, BUT ALSO BECAUSE ONE CAN'T EVER EVER SAY WITH ABSOLUTE AND COMPLETE & UTTER CERTAINTY JUST FOR SURE HOW THEY'D ACT AND WHAT THEY'D DO IF THEY WERE IN THAT SAME SITUATION. TIS -NOT-NOT-NOTTY-NOT- THEIR RIGHT OR THEIR PLACE TO SAY "WHAT SHOULD'VE BEEN DONE!!!" IF y'all technically want to START with "what should've been done," you could start with that horrible, no good, thuggiot piece of crap that SHOULD'VE been locked up & had the keys THROWN AWAY......20-25 years ago, when he first STARTED his reign of terror, solving ALL of his problems with violence, being too uneducated to string together a coherent sentence or 2, to be able to state or defend his own viewpoint.

And before ANY of the rest of you post anything else about what the GF, family, friends or even BUGS BUNNY SHUDDA DONE, WHY DONT YOU GIVE A MOMENTS THOUGHT FIRST TO JUST HOW YOUR SNIDE COMMENTS MIGHT FEEL & LOOK TO RANDY'S KIDS AND HIS GF WHO, I'm sure loved him very, VERY MUCH & is already hard enough ON HERSELF (WRONGLY SO) about all of this mess!!! Would you rub yer own kids' faces in the saddest, most tragic thing to happen in THEIR LIVES?? I think not!

This story saddens me. I did not really know Randy well. He seemed like a nice guy. To the family, I wish I could do more for you than offer my sincerest condolences. Justice will be done in this life or the next. Hopefully both. This "Tom" needs to suffer. To Those who are trying to point blame at the girlfriend or anyone other than Tom, What is wrong in your twisted little minds that makes anyone other than the guy who beat him to death the guilty party? And, think about this, if Tom followed him home, waited till he was alone, outside, and incapacitated, then drug him out of the car and finished the job, now its not an accident during a fight, now its premeditated first degree murder and he deserves the death penalty. Disagree? Why don't you go hang out with Tom and maybe you'll be next. To Tom. I hope I see you pushing a chick around someday. I won't be trying to calm you down. I'll be putting you down. Prick.